Well I'm feeling a lot better today. My RE rang me today and we talked about what possibly went wrong. She said she was actually shocked to hear that the cycle didn't work out.
I asked her about transferring on day 17 as opposed to day 21. She said we'd go with day 17 next time. She said she'd give me something to prevent cramping before the transfer. She also said that ifi do have cramping before the transfer, that we would cancel. So why didn't they cancel this time then???? Anyway I don't know what was going on with my body because on day 15 I started getting my usual dull achiness before cramps.
She said I can start BCPs this week with my period. (yay!!) The nurse will call me this week to work out a schedule. So the transfer will be in May.
So I feel happy now to be moving forward. The thought of having a month in limbo wasn't pleasing me! Although if they felt I should wait a month, I would have.
Onwards and upwards!